DIVORCE SECRETS FOR WOMAN
Divorce Advice, Divorce Secrets and Divorce Financial Protection: What Every Woman Should Know

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Imagine being able to calmly and confidently face the divorce process, knowing what to expect each step of the way so you can make the best decisions for your future.  

   When you're facing a divorce, it's easy to feel overwhelmed by everything.  You know you need reliable information before you make any major decisions.  Where do you get it, though?  For most women, advice from friends just isn't enough.

Hi, my name is Tracy,

I went through a divorce myself, and have worked with divorcing women for several years.  I know from experience what an impact divorce can have on a woman’s life.  

When I went through my divorce,  I was emotionally raw, worn down by all the decisions to be made, and frustrated by the lack of good information.  

Consequently, I made my fair share of mistakes.  Having learned my lessons the hard way, I made a promise to myself that no woman would ever have to face this journey alone.

As a result, I started the WomansDivorce website in 2001 to help other women going through a divorce, and have done so ever since.
The Facts You Need About Divorce!

Divorce is complicated.  Every day I see the sad outcome of what happens when women go through a divorce unprepared.  Unfair property settlements, outrageous attorney fees, and months (or even years) spent battling it out in court.  

To help you get the best outcome from your divorce, I created a comprehensive guide based on the actual questions and concerns of real women just like you.  Organized in easy-to-follow chapters, this manual will help you understand the basics of divorce and identify what needs to be taken care of before, during, and after your divorce.   

    Helping You Meet the Challenges of Divorce

When you're dealing with mixed emotions, upset kids, and an uncooperative spouse, you don't have the time or energy to spend hours searching for the answers to your questions.

Let's face it, it's easy to get distracted, confused, and overwhelmed by all the information available on the internet.  You can avoid this needless frustration by getting everything you need in one place, leaving you more time to spend with your children (and maybe even catch up on a little sleep :-).

  Practical Steps to Get You Started

Even though you're probably struggling with your emotions right now, you need to start thinking about the actual divorce.  Don't worry though, everything is laid out for you so you can take it step by step.  To help you prepare yourself for a divorce, you'll discover:

• What you need to know before you ever hire a lawyer or file for divorce
  
• Financial precautions you can take so you'll have enough money to get through your divorce. 
  
• How to find the right lawyer, and what to ask during the initial consultation.
  
• Steps to protect your credit so you can start over after your divorce. 
  "The worksheets alone were worth the price of the book" ~ Jeanne
    With Divorce 101, you'll get handy worksheets to help you:

• Organize the information you need for your divorce, saving you time and repeated trips to your lawyer's office.
  
• Determine your current living expenses to get a realistic picture of your situation.
  
• Provide the documentation needed so you can get adequate support to survive afterwards.
  
• Calculate the bottom line on assets and debts so you can get a fair settlement and have something to start over with.
      Discover Techniques For Negotiating
    Because you were an equal partner in the marriage, you deserve your fair share of the marital assets.  By understanding the issues and knowing exactly where you stand, you can negotiate confidently and ask for what you deserve.  Plus, this woman's guide to divorce" outlines different negotiating strategies to help you split everything as painlessly as possible.
            What About The Kids?
        When you have children, there is more to consider than just who gets the house and how everything will be split.  Divorce 101: A Woman's Guide will help prepare you for the various custody arrangements and visitation issues so you can decide how your children's lives will be handled, not some judge.
      The included worksheets serve as a tool to help you draft a parenting plan that fits the needs of your children and your unique situation. Having this well thought-out parenting plan will help avoid future conflicts with your ex and make life easier on your kids. 
          Understand How Support Issues Work
          It's common for a woman's standard of living to go down after a divorce, but you can take steps to make sure you receive the amount of support you and your children deserve.  Lets face it, raising kids is expensive, and both parents should share the financial responsibility.  Divorce 101 can help you understand what's important in determining both child support and alimony, as well as what your options are when the support payments aren't being made.
 Won't My Lawyer Handle Everything?
     Here’s the truth:  Not every lawyer has the time or inclination to hold their client's hand through each step of the divorce process.  In fact, most lawyers have many cases going at the same time and often use a legal assistant to do the majority of their work.  
     You are the one who is ultimately responsible for the decisions made in your divorce.  By getting the information you need beforehand, you can understand what your options are, gain confidence, and do what is right for you and your children.  Aren't you worth it?
      "The Woman's Guide to Divorce" has it all!
      By knowing what your rights are, you can make smart choices and avoid the potential pitfalls of divorce.  This guide will take you by the hand and answer all your questions!
      So What Does "DIVORCE 101: A Woman's Guide" Cover, Exactly? 
      Not sure whether "DIVORCE 101" can really help you get through your divorce?

Take a look at what's inside "Divorce 101:  A Woman's Guide".... 

Table of Contents
"Divorce 101:  A Woman's Guide"
Everything You Need To Know About Divorce

How Do I Tell the Kids about the Divorce? doesn’t just tell you what to say. It says it for you!

   It’s no secret. Telling your children about the divorce may be the most difficult conversation you’ll ever have. Why leave it to chance? 

  I wrote this guidebook so you don’t have to worry, spend sleepless nights or beat yourself up about making a mistake … saying the wrong things … falling apart … or not having answers to your children’s immediate questions.  

  I know there are many books about children and divorce. What makes this one unique? My innovative Create-a-Storybook™ concept. I’ve prepared for you an actual template – the word-for-word text that tells you just what you need to say – in age-appropriate language for children 5 to 10 or 10 to 15. And then I guide you, step-by-step, in preparing an attractive personal family storybook, in a photo-album format, that your children will want to read.  

   In other words, I don’t just tell you what to say – I actually say it for you – with love and compassion! I also include the six key messages your children continuously need to hear, understand and accept at this crucial time. Even if you don’t purchase my guidebook, you need to make sure you share these essential messages with your kids again and again so that they never forget:

1. You are, and always will be, loved my Mom and Dad.

2. You are, and will continue to be, safe.

3. You are not to blame for any of this.

4. Mom and Dad will still always be your Mom and Dad.

5. This is about change, not about blame

6. Everything is going to be okay.

No other book shows you how to create a customized storybook uniquely about your family … your children … and your divorce!

The benefits for both you and your children are immeasurable.
After reading this Guidebook …

You will be … 

   ·        confident about how to begin, end, and just what to say all the way through the “divorce” conversation
   ·        prepared to share with your children the six essential concepts they need to understand and accept
   ·        aware of what your children may be thinking and feeling so you can respond accordingly
   ·        secure, as a role-model for your children, on how to handle disagreements and discord with dignity, integrity and respect
   ·        proud, for the sake of your children, that you took the high road as you venture into your separation or divorce
   You will feel …
   ·        totally prepared to tell your kids about the divorce – because you will be!
   ·        empowered about conveying your message with understanding, compassion and love
   ·        confident you’re giving your family the best possible foundation for a healthy and harmonious future, despite your divorce
   ·        capable of creating and maintaining a Child-Centered divorce
   You will know …
   ·        how to avoid anxiety, awkwardness and stumbling for just the right words
   ·        you have a text you can refer back to so that you stay on track – even when emotions run high
   ·        how to communicate in the language your children (between the ages of 5 and 15) will understand – and appreciate
   ·        what to expect, how to respond and be prepared with answers to inevitable questions
   ·        you are giving your children a wonderful storybook about them and their family that they will want to read over and over again for reassurance
   ·        how to access resources you can turn to, including: articles, organizations, attorneys and therapists, to give you additional support in the coming months
   Your kids will …
   ·        feel safe, loved and accepted during this difficult time in their lives
   ·        know and understand they are not responsible or to blame for your divorce
   ·        discover that change, while frightening and difficult, is inevitable and can turn out okay
   ·        appreciate having a storybook about them and their family that they can read again and again for reassurance
   ·        grasp, through text and family photographs, that life goes on from the past into the future, and there will be many happy experiences to look forward to ahead
   ·        hear, and start to accept, the six key messages essential to help them through the divorce and beyond
   ·        avoid the anxiety and guilt of having to choose or make other decisions that are not their responsibility
   ·        remember the respectful way you handled the challenges Mom and Dad have been experiencing
   ·        thank you when they grow up, as my son did, for trying your hardest at all times to create a Child-Centered Divorce!

   Why isn’t this book available in any book store?

   Many people ask me about that. And the answer is simple. I’m offering my guidebook to you in digital format – as a downloadable file – for a very strategic reason. Unlike most books, How Do I Tell the Kids about the Divorce? was designed to be personalized
– by you – for your family. And that’s best done through a simple digital download.

  Your guidebook includes two fill-in-the-blanks templates. One for children aged five to ten. The other for older children up to age fifteen. They’re very easy to complete, adapt, customize and/or change in any way that suits you and your personal circumstances. Clear instructions guide you, step-by-step, in creating your storybook, answering your questions section by section. And because this is a download, you get the book right now – when you need it most – so you can immediately begin your journey to peace of mind.

  I know the template idea is really wonderful. But the value of this guidebook doesn’t stop there. 

  Throughout the book you’ll benefit from the guidance, experience and support of six expert professionals who take you from your first conversation through pitfalls to avoid, and signals to pay attention to, in the weeks, months and even years down the road.

   The advice of my expert contributors will provide additional insight to help you create the storybook that best suits your children and your family. You’ll also find lots of suggestions about how to add your own individual touch to the style, design and format of your storybook – from the most basic approach to a turning out a highly creative work of art.

   While there’s no right or wrong way to make your storybook, you can be totally confident that it will convey the right message you want to give to your kids.

21 STEPS RELATIONSHIP
21 SIMPLE steps to saving your RELATIONSHIP, stop your divorce, get your ex back

Save the Relationship
I can save your Relationship in 21 SIMPLE steps.
You can save your relationship even if your ex partner wants rid of you.

    Dear Friend,

How can you stop your break-up or divorce and save it from destruction? And more importantly how do they make your marriage strong? Yes we know that not every marriage is the same and all people are different, but there are certain principles about love, marriage and relationships that stay the same. There are ways to stop making the common mistake that makes break up and divorce imminent, but instead create stronger relationships. Is this possible for you? Of course it is!

Your partner wants out of the relationship or marriage. They have told you that they are not happy and they’ve gone as far as telling you that they do not love you anymore. All you can see is a future that is filled with empty days and nights. Sometimes you really feel that you won’t live through it.

   How does it feel?

If you happen to be losing someone who you made a lifetime commitment to, then you will know what a gut wrenching, painful experience it is. It feels as traumatic as a death in the family. It might seem highly unlikely right now to get your husband or wife back, but one thing for sure is no split is definitely forever. It really doesn't matter your relationship type or your sexuality, if there was love in the relationship you can get it back. If you are constantly saying to yourself that you need to know how to get your partner back then you must read this. I can show you how.

When a relationship ends your world crashes around you and you feel you just can't go on but you must and you will. You've probably got on all of your friend's nerves because of the constant going on and on about your situation, and all they ask is: "Are you still going on about this? I would have thought that you would have gotten over this by now!" You might feel that when they say this, they do not care. The truth is, they do care, but they don't understand, and they quite honestly do not know what to do.

   "So, what do I do?" Quick tips.

For now you need to change your mindset and take a positive attitude that will carry you through the pain. How do you deal with your relationship breaking down? Be the first to apologise in your relationship and be happy with the situation. You will immediately feel a change in the atmosphere. How does this work? At first this might seem like a mad thing to do, presenting yourself as a door mat to get walked over. After all why should we give them anything? Whether you’re in the wrong or in the right, and no matter what has happened, your relationship is fixable. Although this tip does initially seem counter-intuitive, it contains within it the single most powerful method for improving the quality of your relationships and also finding more happiness in life.

If you're looking for some quick tips on saving your relationship, or stopping your divorce, you have come to THE right place.

Chances are, you've probably spent a lot of money on professional counselling services, or you've taken advice from friends and relatives and you feel that they do not know what it feels like, or you've read other books and bits of information from other organizations, websites and people to help you get what you want. These might be excellent books and tips giving great advice, however the techniques given here actually work quickly and not just in theory. If you have listened to advice from anyone else and so far nothing has worked, here are a few tips that will turn things round for you.

To really cement your relationship I have written a small but very powerful book which not only tells you what to do, and not do, to make things better but will also show you why and how the techniques work. I also give you the EXACT words to say, and I also tell you when to say them. And I also tell you how to say them. Yes, that's right, I give you the EXACT words to say to get your partner to come back to you, even if you think you have no chance. Below, I also have some free FIRST STAGE instructions that could turn your situation round.

Here are a few Do's and Don'ts...

"I have changed! I promise! I'll never let you down again!"

DON'T

You must never do this. We have all done it, and it never works. My recommendation is not to promise that you'll change. The trouble is, the more you try this, the worse your situation becomes because you are pushing them away. Even if you really mean to change, things have probably become so bad in the relationship that this will sound like a desperate promise that you don't mean and are just saying to make them change their mind.

DO

So what does work? There's not much you can say to show your ex partner that you intend to change. In that case there really is no point in saying anything. If you know that there is a need for you to change, don't tell them that you will change, just change! Actions speak louder than words. Don't make promises, just do what you're supposed to do with your partner and do the things you need to do without paying any lip service.

Telling them that you love them.

DON'T

DO

Arguing or Rowing

DON'T

Arguing and trying to get your partner to see your point of view is probably the worst thing you can do. Let's be honest, in a break up they don't want to see your point of view. You will be tempted with the urge to defend yourself with regards to what you might have said or with regards what you did. You might even throw the blame somewhere else, but one thing is for certain, the more you argue the more they will argue back or they will leave. If you take a negative course of action they will do the same. You might even win the argument (Hooray!), but you will not save the relationship.

DO

As I mentioned earlier DO NOT ARGUE. Instead Bite your lip! Be the first to apologise even if you are not in the wrong. Don't get drawn into an argument even if they come out with the biggest lies. Do not be tempted into defending yourself. The thing to do is to agree with your partner no matter what you feel at the time. Do not defend yourself and add fuel to the fire. Doing this will more likely chill them out, and all of the hostility will die down, and will often lead your spouse to defending you later on down the line when they've had the time to calm down and analyse the situation. Once you dismiss the urge to win the argument your relationship will fix itself. You don't have to try to fix it.

"Can this work for me?"
It doesn't matter what your situation is, your relationship can be saved.
Here are a few items that many people search for online when it comes to saving their relationship as mentioned above:

Right, here are your FIRST STAGE instructions...

• Stop telling them that you love them.
• Just for now you must do this. Don't worry this actually helps.
• Stop drinking or taking drugs
• This might not apply to you but it is worth mensioning. A lot of people rely on "Dutch Courage" to deal with tough situations, but during a relationship break down this is definitely a bad idea, and recreational drugs are always a no, no.
• Stop promising that you'll change
• This never works, in fact, it pushes them away faster.
• No more arguing
• Never throw fuel into a fire that you want to put out.
• Don't get smart
• Don't get cocky and smart with your partner because they will resent you for it.

These first stage instructions might not make any sense right now but all is explained in my short book. After applying these first stages you may start to see changes in your partner straight away. If on the other hand you still need to do some more work. I can show you what you might be doing wrong. You might have tried absolutely everything and you think that there really is no hope, well I'm telling you that there is.

Start by getting rid of the stress. You can do this by simply agreeing with what your partner says. You might feel silly doing this but this is the first move to getting your mate on your side.

Stop arguing, stop begging, stop criticizing and start listening and agreeing with whatever they say and want.

My book the 21 SIMPLE steps to saving your RELATIONSHIP gives you step by step information that you can easily followto turn your situation around right away.

You could within the first 20 minutes of reading, pick up a few tips that will turn things round. After this I encourage you to read the book from cover to cover because I show you how to deal with most situations and I show you why the information works.

I've had many people say to me: "You don't know my wife! Once she has made her mind up there's no going back. Now I've lost her for good." But once I get them to say a few words and act in a certain way, the situation is turned round instantly.

The methods written in my book work with all relationships.

Fast help in a book

In this book you will learn:

• EXACTLY what to stop doing which is making you situation worse.
  Chances are, you're doing everything wrong right now.
• EXACTLY what to say, how to say and when to say it. This will turn your situation around FAST.
  I give you the exact words that communicate with the subconcious mind without them knowing. These words will straight away force your ex partner into re-thinking the situation.
• How to get you ex partner to DEFEND you to their friends and family.
  You might think that there is no way of getting through to your partner because they are highly influenced by their friends but I show you how to act so that they start defending YOU to them.
• How to gain respect and dignity without asking or begging for it.
  I tell and how you why begging and explaining does not work.
• Get your partner back even if they have found someone else.
  You might think that it's all over but this can actually help your relationship.
• How to stop your divorce.
  If you have already gone through divorce, you can make your ex partner want you again.

And much, much more...

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IS YOUR SPOUSE HIDING MONEY?
Learn the signs of a spouse hiding money or assets

Child support and alimony payments are based on income. If your spouse has under-reported his or her income, negotiating a fair support order becomes impossible!

Marital property can't be divided fairly unless all assets have been identified and accurately valued. If your spouse has not fully disclosed his or her assets, or if you disagree over the value of a marital asset, then reaching a fair settlement on property division is difficult.

Ensure You Get Your Fair Share in a Divorce!

• Do you know the commons signs that could mean your spouse is hiding money?
• Would you know what to do if you suspect that your spouse has engaged in divorce planning and is hiding assets?  
• More importantly, would you know what NOT to do?
• What are some of the common methods used to hide or depreciate assets?
• What are some of the more uncommon methods?
• Line by line tax form analysis instructions
• What is Forensic Accounting?
• How do you find an Attorney who specializes in finding hidden assets?
• What do you do when a family member or a business partner is impacted?

Protect yourself by learning the tactics used to hide money and assets during a divorce.  Learn to identify the signs.

• Are there any legal ways for someone to hide money?
• Does your spouse receive stock options at work?  
• Understand the different types of options
• What are you entitled to retain?
• Understand your legal rights
• Learn how to make your spouse expose hidden assets

• We take you line by line through your 1040 return
• Understand the complete Schedule A (Itemized Deductions)
• Explore Schedule B - Interest and Dividend Income
• Schedule C - Profit or Loss from a Business 
• Schedule D - Capital Gains and Losses

This is purely for information purposes. Divorce is an expensive process, so it doesn't help when your partner is trying to hide money that is rightfully yours. Protect yourself now.

DIVORCE AMMO
Top divorce tips, divorce strategies, divorce advice all from real life experiences. First hand divorce tips, divorce process advice.

The Truth About Divorce:

Divorce can either give you a new lease on life or it can leave you in financial and emotional ruin for years. "How" you divorce will have a major impact on the rest of your life. What you need are proven insider tips and strategies to help you avoid making costly mistakes during your divorce. Divorce Ammo gives you the proven divorce tips and divorce strategies that will enable you to take control of your divorce quickly and easily. Reduce stress, spend less, and take control. This is all the divorce help you will ever need.  This is the best reference you will find on How to Divorce.

Let's face it, the only people who benefit from divorce are the attorneys. Divorce attorneys are making a killing with today's high divorce rate. That's why you won't learn these proven divorce tips and strategies from the legal community any time soon. Divorce Ammo finally exposes the divorce tips and divorce strategies that will allow you take control of your divorce and save you thousands in legal fees, spousal and child support.  This will be the most important book you have ever read about divorce!

Don't Make the Same Mistakes Others Have Made!

Its human nature to make mistakes, however, in divorce proceedings, mistakes are very costly!  Now you can learn from those who have experienced the ups and downs first hand. The divorce tips and strategies in this ebook will enable you to avoid making the same costly mistakes others have made and give you a leg up throughout the entire process.

By avoiding just one costly mistake, you could potentially save thousands on your divorce or alimony payments.

How can I help you?

I've been there.  I know how hard it is to go through a divorce or separation. My divorce was one of the most stressful life events I have every experienced. Along each step of the way I felt helpless and alone not knowing what to expect next. Like others before me, I spent countless hours doing research in hopes of better educating myself on the divorce process. However, my research turned up nothing more than legal jargon or simple common sense divorce advice that gave me no added value. 

Looking back at my divorce, I made many costly mistakes along the way. If I knew then, what I know now, things would have gone much differently. The divorce tips and strategies that are in this ebook, would have allowed for less stress, less money spent on attorney fees, less spousal support, protected my children from the process, and allowed me to have been much more in control.

Throughout my divorce, I documented every aspect of the experience in hopes of one day being able to help others with their divorces. I also began talking with friends and family who also had gone through divorces. I was surprised to learn they too went through similar experiences and made the same mistakes.

After years of research, and countless interviews with others who have been through the divorce process, I’ve created the perfect source of divorce tips and divorce strategies.  All based on first hand knowledge of the divorce process from those who experienced it first hand.  This is the divorce help ebook everyone is looking for.

The 'All New 3rd Edition' of Divorce Ammo now has Even More Divorce Tips and Divorce Strategies:

• Understand the Overall Divorce Process for the best advice on How to Divorce
• Learn the Ins and Outs of the legal System
• Learn the Best Ways to Find the Right Family Attorney
• All States are Not Alike - State Specific Laws
• Men Vs. Woman and How Each Approach Divorce
• Top 5 Things to Do If Divorce is Imminent
• Top 5 Things NOT to Do If Divorce is Imminent
• What the Court Says, Goes - Playing within the rules, or not
• Adultery (Cheaters and Cheating)
• The Children - Understand how Divorce Affects your Children
• The Problem With Hiding Marital Problems from the Children
• Strategies for Not Putting the Children in the Middle
• Divorce Strategies for Child Support
• Direct Payroll Deductions for Support Payments
• Your Money - Tips and Strategies on How to Keep it
• Tips and Strategies to Save Thousands on Attorney Fees
• How Keeping Good Records can Save You Money
• Medical Expenses - What will You or Your Ex Have to Pay
• Common Techniques People Use to Hide Money
• Understanding What to Look for in Tax Returns
• Strategies and Advice for Dealing with an Emotional Spouse
• Dealing with a Narcissist During Divorce
• It Doesn’t Happen Overnight - Understanding How Long the Process Takes
• Counseling Advice
• I'm Divorced, What Next?
• And much more

DIVORCE STORIES

DIVORCING A NARCISSIST AND OTHER JERKS
The How To Of Divorcing Narcissists, Liars, Jerks, And Difficult Spouses

   Ignorance is NOT bliss when it comes to divorce. This is about to be one of the most important events to ever take place in your life and you want to be prepared for it. 

   Information is power...having the right strategy and knowing what to expect can and will make your divorce go smoother and help you avoid some of the more hellish aspects of a difficult divorce.
   In my book, “Divorce: The Real Truths And Hidden Dangers”, I not only reveal details of my horrible divorce, but I also give you real life tactics, tips, and techinques that you can use in your own divorce to be able to save yourself lots of heartache, headache, money, time, and most importantly, your sanity.

This Is The Book That Your Soon To Be Ex-Spouse And  Lawyers Don't Want You To See!

   Let me be more specific. Here's a list of some of things you'll discover once you get your hands on this book:

     And much more!

CHILD CUSTODY EVALUATION AND MEDIATION PREPARATION
Step-by-Step Preparation for Child Custody Mediation…

   Child Custody Evaluation & Mediation Preparation…

   If you have taken the time to search for information on this topic you are obviously going through a child custody situation or anticipating going through this in the near future. The process of going through Family Court Services (FCS) and child custody mediation/evaluation can be a daunting task and will have major implications on the future of you and your family.

   They will make decisions for your family that determine how and when you will interact with your child…

   This e-book is designed to help you prepare well for the evaluation.

   Dr. Miguel Alvarez and Dr. Lori Love have over 30 years combined experience performing child custody evaluations and preparing clients who are facing an impending custody evaluation/mediation. They have collaborated to produce an informative e-book that will help you prepare for the mediation process and allow you to secure the best possible future for you and your family.

   This handbook was designed to prepare you quickly and effectively for Family Court Services (FCS), child custody mediation, and/or child custody evaluations. It is not intended to serve as an exhaustive approach for these situations since most people do not have the time, inclination, or resources to become the perfect candidate. You can benefit significantly and immediately from the use of a few simple tools such as a basic orientation, an organizer, and a check list. If you do not have the time or the money for what’s known as a “private preparation,” this handbook is for you.

   We want you to succeed in obtaining the best possible outcome for your children!

   The goal is to effectively prepare your presentation for Family Court Services (FCS), child custody mediation, or the child custody evaluation so that the mental health professional’s (MHP’s) assessment of you is more accurate. This handbook will provide you with a series of recommendations that are easy to implement and utilize without bogging you down with unnecessary information. Improve your ability to present yourself well in these situations, as they are crucial to your success in obtaining the best possible outcome for your children.

This is a critical moment in your life, and if not properly managed, it can work against you.

Regardless of what brought you to this point — dealing with family court services, child custody mediation or child custody evaluation — your job now is to work productively with the mental health professional and secure the best future possible for you and your family.  This is a critical moment in your life, and if not properly managed, it can work against you.

An e-book designed by actual custody evaluators…

The less time that you have with the MHP, the more important it is that you make a good first impression. The more time that you have with the MHP, the more important it is that you are able to show historical and psychological consistency in your parenting over time.  This e-book,  designed by actual custody evaluators, can help you prepare well for the meeting.

Dr. Miguel Alvarez and Dr. Lori Love have over 30 years combined experience performing child custody evaluations and preparing clients who are facing an impending custody evaluation/mediation. They have collaborated to produce this informative e-book that will help you prepare for the mediation process and allow you to secure the best possible future for you and your family.